1. Get a clear picture of how you want to look in your head
Close your eyes and imagine yourself on your wedding day. What do you see? Are you walking down an aisle, on the beach, on a yacht, outside under candlelight? Is your dress flowing behind you in the breeze? Do you feel like a princess because of the ball gown poof? or maybe you have a tight fit mermaid style dress that accentuates all your curves? Take that image that you have in your mind and write down six adjectives that describe how you want to look on your big day! For example, you may write words like traditional, romantic, princess like, lavish, minimalist, sophisticated, sexy, elegant etc.2. Try on the different silhouettes of gowns to find out what looks best on your figure
All wedding gown fall under one of four silhouettes: ball gown (the most traditional, has a full bodice and waistline that leads to a very full skirt), the empire (has a high waistline which falls to a slimmer skirt), the A-line or princess (features vertical seams flowing from the shoulders down to an A-shaped flared skirt), and the sheath (closely follows the line of the body). An experienced bridal consultant can point out what feature of each silhouette best compliments your body type. You should let her know what you like about each style as well.3. Select the color and fabric of your gown
A dress in a different color can look and feel very different on you. Although the traditional wedding color is white, more and more gowns are being designed in different colors. You may want to consider a softer ivory or a darker champagne that will better enhance your complexion. Choose a color and a fabric that will best reflect the mood of your wedding. When you choose the fabric of your dress, keep in mind that it will be the basis for the overall look and feel of your gown and will influence cost more than any other aspect of your gown.4. Determine what features you want on your gown
You should consider and have a good idea about what kind of neckline, waistline, train, beadwork, applique, lace, and any other embellishments. Once you have decided which silhouette, color and fabric you like best, determine if the gown will have sleeves, straps, or if you would prefer strapless. You will want to try on a variety of gowns to help you find what you like best as you discover what your perfect gown will be.5. Accept help from knowledgeable and professional bridal consultants
A good bridal consultant will ask lots of questions so that she can better understand how you envision YOUR big day. They will want to be helpful and ensure that you have a great experience. They will treat you with respect and most likely provide some recommendations. An expert consultant has seen many gowns on many different brides and many different body types. Let an expert's opinion guide you to consider shapes, or styles that you may not have considered before. However, your consultant should make you feel comfortable, and you should be able to freely express your opinion. From the moment that you enter a salon or store be mindful of the way that you are treated. You should feel that you are respected and you should be comfortable talking with the people. This is your special day and you deserve help that makes you feel happy.6. Be aware of traditions or religious guidelines that may influence how your gown should look
Different pastors, clergy, or officiants in various religious and/or ethnic backgrounds have different requirements about wedding gowns. Some require that you have sleeves, or that your straps be a certain thickness. Others have a height requirement for the front and/or back of your gown. Also, some venues have these types of requirements. If you are set on a certain venue, or a specific person that you would like to perform the ceremony, be sure to check on any guidelines or requirements about your gown. this will prevent embarrassment on the part of you and your guests.7. Bring along someone whose opinion you trust and respect to help you in your search
This could be a sibling, parent, friend, or bridesmaid. Having an extra set of eyes can be helpful, but limit the number of people that you bring with you. Too many opinions can cause confusion and frustration. Such feedback can be invaluable, but do not forget that it is YOUR wedding day. In the end, your opinion is the one that matters most. You should make the decision yourself after careful consideration.8. Make your decision
Making your final decision doesn't have to be a stressful drawn out experience. You have your mother or friend and your consultant to help you. Be sure to give yourself a chance to look at several options before purchasing your gown. Trust your own instincts. You have likely been visualizing your special day for some time. Ask yourself these three important questions prior to making your final decision: 1. Which dress do I feel the prettiest in? 2. Which dress accentuates my best feature? and 3. Which dress most fits my personality or style? Try on each gown that you are considering and ask these three questions. When you find the one to which all of the answers are yes, you have found your gown! Once this decision has been made, smile and relax!9. Have your dress altered to match your exact figure
Make sure that you find a seamstress who is an expert at altering wedding gowns. Many brides have to go back and find another "dream dress" because their original was destroyed in alterations. Avoid this by planning ahead for any necessary alterations. The typical wedding gown is made for a lady that is 5'7". Be sure that if your gown doesn't fit perfectly that you go ahead and get it altered so that it fits your perfectly. Many stores have a seamstress that works in the store or at least a list of tailors that are experienced in wedding alterations.10. Look for the final touches
Once you have found your gown, look for the matching elements that will complete your dream experience. Be sure to consider such accessories as a veil, gloves, shoes, and jewelry. These elements can help to complete your transformation into a new bride. You may want to ask your bridal consultant for suggestions about these final touches. You don't want to overpower your dress. If your dress already has a lot of beadwork, you may not need a lot of jewelry. The neckline that you choose will affect the length and look of the jewelry that will correctly accent your gown.With these 10 tips in mind, your search for YOUR perfect, dream gown should be an exciting, stress-free, fulfilling and wonderful experience.